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Go write on a REAL website... With a REAL blog... Fucker! ðģðŪ
Go write on a REAL website... With a REAL blog... Fucker! ðģðŪ It was two in the morning. He was still up, watching sports highlights and charging the phone. The e. mail emoji chimed. He tapped his cell open... and raised his eyebrows... as he read, what she wrote. "You are so full of shit ! You think you're so smart and glib! You think you're so witty and funny! Well you're not! You're just an asshole, who plays with words and manipulates people's feelings! You think you can write? You think you're better than everyone? You can't write worth shit! You're just a conceited dick, with an ego the size of your head! Get a grip and look around. Do you have a life, outside the fantasy you've created, on THAT site? You're a sociopath. Get some mental help! You want to write? Go write on a REAL website, with a REAL blog, fucker! See how far you get! And stop harassing me! " He looked at her words and blinked. He was confused... to say the least. "Hey... stuff happens, right?" he mumbled to himself. What had he done, to deserve THAT e.m.ail, from her? It's not like they were an exclusive couple or anything. He thought they were getting along... really well. He was still in shock and slowly... very slowly, began composing his response ; when his phone... chimed again. "So sorry! SO, SO SORRY! My bad! That e.m.ail, wasn't for YOU. It was for somebody else. I messed up! Disregard and DELETE. Please! Hugs... âĪïļðð" "Somebody else? Who... was her intended recipient?" he sat befuddled. He did as she suggested and deleted the e.m.ail. Then... pausing... he quicky recovered 'it' from the 'Trash' and saved 'it' - just in case. He wondered if she really had , made a mistake ; or was her note, a drunken - 'truth serum' - misstep. Perhaps... that's how she really felt about him? He wasn't sure. Her suggestion that he look into alternative blog sites - was a good one. Her other suggestion - get some mental help? Well... he Googled ; 'Am I a narcissist or a sociopath?'. He wasn't sure about that either. . ......................................... So... Ever pressed 'Enter' ... and then regretted it? ðĪ ......................................... . .. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O |
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Sure... I've made those mistakes and I've regretted... some of them. OMG! Now, I double and tripple check, all emails and texts - even blog comments. Especially late at night. Every once in a while... something, slips through the cracks. The next day, I'm like - "Really... did I say that?" Ugh... ya think I'd mature up? ðĪ I'm working on it. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Many times I'd like to say something to someone - here or in the 'real world' and I hold back. What's the point, right? If you have nothing positive to say... don't say anything. Good advice that I try to follow... mostly. Once in a while I get burned, by my own temper! Ughhh... ðķ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I received a selfie once from a work colleague that I was VERY glad was not intended for me!!!! it did make our next meeting kind of awkward... but we got past it like two adult men... no a word said about it
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Very easy to make mistakes, especially here where site eat words. 8 try my best and still things get changed by my auto correct which I swear has a mi d of it's own. 8 am sure you will get to the bottom of it.
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10/10/2019 1:01 pm |
I try to always double check what I have written before sending. Isnât auto correct great! NOT!
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I dont know that I have sent to the wrong person however I have had reacted quickly and emailed snarky comments. I have since learned to wait. A 24 hour cooling off period seems to work best. I also dont deal with issues of emails, blogs etc. Nothing beats a good old fashioned conversation. I tend to hold my tongue quite a bit more then I would when I was younger, there comes a point when you realize 1. its not really that big a deal in the grand scheme of things in life and 2. Most people are set in their ways and you arent going to enlighten them with an email/blog/text.
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In addition if I had received a text like that, regardless if it was sent in error or not to me that person would be moving down the totem pole as that type of reaction/outburst is not the type of person I would want to associate with regularly.
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I received a selfie once from a work colleague that I was VERY glad was not intended for me!!!! it did make our next meeting kind of awkward... but we got past it like two adult men... no a word said about it You're such a pro. If I had known that guy, I woulda been ranging on him forever ; with double entendres... all over the place. Sounds like a classic. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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No its not you it's her she should have never done that. People need to make sure they are sending things to the right person. I hope you have a great evening..
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Very easy to make mistakes, especially here where site eat words. 8 try my best and still things get changed by my auto correct which I swear has a mi d of it's own. 8 am sure you will get to the bottom of it. Then I read it after it's on its way. ð ðŪ Yep... you must have some doozies as well ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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It certainly does. Happy trails. Say hello to everyone in Boston for me! ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I try to always double check what I have written before sending. Isnât auto correct great! NOT! Yeah...! ð Thanks for popping in and drop in any time. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I dont know that I have sent to the wrong person however I have had reacted quickly and emailed snarky comments. I have since learned to wait. A 24 hour cooling off period seems to work best. I also dont deal with issues of emails, blogs etc. Nothing beats a good old fashioned conversation. I tend to hold my tongue quite a bit more then I would when I was younger, there comes a point when you realize 1. its not really that big a deal in the grand scheme of things in life and 2. Most people are set in their ways and you arent going to enlighten them with an email/blog/text. I'm still reading the memo. YOU hold your tongue? Or HE does? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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In addition if I had received a text like that, regardless if it was sent in error or not to me that person would be moving down the totem pole as that type of reaction/outburst is not the type of person I would want to associate with regularly. Honesty is fine if you want something to work... no? ðĪ If you really care... THAT type of honesty and build and strengthen a relationship. I demand honesty from people, especially those close to me. Don't you? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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No its not you it's her she should have never done that. People need to make sure they are sending things to the right person. I hope you have a great evening.. I don't know. What if... what a person says hits a nerve and makes you think. Let's say that you care about that person. I'd prefer an honest friend, than one filling me with stuff. You? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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lol...
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lol... ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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In this electronic world, it's so easy for people to resort to texting or emailing, rather than picking up the phone and having a real conversation. Of course, nothing beats face-to-face so you can see body language and all the other nuances. I don't recall ever sending a text to the 'wrong' person, but have received a few. Am guilty of having sent a few messages 'in the heat of the moment' so I do my best to try to avoid it.
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Well... I guess everyone is entitled to their opinion. But she didn't mention THIS site. Must be other sites out there with blogs, no? Did you ever send an email or text my mistake? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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In this electronic world, it's so easy for people to resort to texting or emailing, rather than picking up the phone and having a real conversation. Of course, nothing beats face-to-face so you can see body language and all the other nuances. I don't recall ever sending a text to the 'wrong' person, but have received a few. Am guilty of having sent a few messages 'in the heat of the moment' so I do my best to try to avoid it. What did you do? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Interesting thought, going to a different site to blog. I can think of a few people here, over the years, who became very popular and thought they could become even more popular putting their blog on a mainstream site. Guess what? Hardly anyone followed them there. You know, when you have to actually navigate to a different site...as opposed to having their new posts conveniently pop up in yellow, here....interest tends to wane pretty fast. So that's why I stay here, even though my blog isn't usually about sex and I'm not trying to meet people on the site any more. It's my own cozy corner where I can count on at least 10-15 people to read and comment.
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Interesting thought, going to a different site to blog. I can think of a few people here, over the years, who became very popular and thought they could become even more popular putting their blog on a mainstream site. Guess what? Hardly anyone followed them there. You know, when you have to actually navigate to a different site...as opposed to having their new posts conveniently pop up in yellow, here....interest tends to wane pretty fast. So that's why I stay here, even though my blog isn't usually about sex and I'm not trying to meet people on the site any more. It's my own cozy corner where I can count on at least 10-15 people to read and comment. Cozy is good! I like cozy. ð Blogs are either diary based, thought or pov based or theme based. It's a tough market to crack, unless you have a well thought out niche. Ten to fifteen is a nice party, isn't it? ðð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Well... at the very least, you'll have figured out what they really thought of you. Honesty is fine if you want something to work... no? ðĪ If you really care... THAT type of honesty and build and strengthen a relationship. I demand honesty from people, especially those close to me. Don't you?
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I have never regretted any email that I've sent....even the not-so-nice ones. I have mixed up conversations on instant messengers. I try not to multichat any more. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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Well, sure. Emotions get the better of everyone once in awhile. And, I've been the recipient of a text message sent to the wrong person. From my ex while we were still married. On Christmas Eve, to his girlfriend, telling her how much he wished he was spending the holiday with her. And, I know it was to her, because her first name was in it. At one point, he was messaging multiple women (apparently, he didn't think I was reviewing the cell phone bill), and he always put the first name of the woman he was texting. Ha. I just thought of something. Wouldn't it be funny if he was your neighbor, lmao. (He lives in Montreal...) "Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." â Mark Black
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I have never regretted any email that I've sent....even the not-so-nice ones. I have mixed up conversations on instant messengers. I try not to multichat any more. I realized that I had an inner voice that said _"You shouldn't have sent THAT. " And that other voice, that said - it's what you wanted to say. Now... about... this 'Multichat'... thingy. Tell me about THAT! ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Well, sure. Emotions get the better of everyone once in awhile. And, I've been the recipient of a text message sent to the wrong person. From my ex while we were still married. On Christmas Eve, to his girlfriend, telling her how much he wished he was spending the holiday with her. And, I know it was to her, because her first name was in it. At one point, he was messaging multiple women (apparently, he didn't think I was reviewing the cell phone bill), and he always put the first name of the woman he was texting. Ha. I just thought of something. Wouldn't it be funny if he was your neighbor, lmao. (He lives in Montreal...) What a story! I'm kinda in shock. THAT... is a slice of life, that remain branded in someone's memory. And that last part, about him being my neighbour? Well... What's his address? ðĪ That's... a pretty heavy, misplaced text. I, would have been freaked out Or... were you expecting it? I apologize, if I'm prying. No worries... Beats any wrong note, I've received. ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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For a moment there, I though I was going to have to come to your rescue and smack a beech. How dare someone rip into poor, sweet, funny Paul... Well, glad I won't have to now. I've done that in a chat room, way back in the day. I meant a snarky response to be send in a PM, but ended up sending it to the whole room instead. Whoops! There was a good 30 or so seconds of no online convo, and I can only gather the room was wondering just who that was for and how to respond. Finally, someone chimes in with "Do you need chocolate this evening?" "Yes, please. Sorry. PMSing. *Pay no attention to the (wo)man behind that curtain*." Quote from Wizard of Oz. Laughter ensued. Good save on my part. "Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.
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You're better than me. I realized that I had an inner voice that said _"You shouldn't have sent THAT. " And that other voice, that said - it's what you wanted to say. Now... about... this 'Multichat'... thingy. Tell me about THAT! ð Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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Multichat? There's nothing really to tell - I don't do well chatting with more than 2 people at the same time. I've tried juggling 3 or 4 conversations simultaneously and the sexy, flirty remark ends up going to the person I'm talking politics with or the one I'm trying to get rid of. It's happened to me a few times in the chat rooms. In text where I feel angry... I wait 24 hours before I'll send something out. In business... it's best to maintain a stance... but WAIT before, you take one. Politics...? Get rid of? Irony or pun? lol ð Or... how DO YOU get rid of them? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Never those types of e-mails...............If It happens its just sending to one son when it suppose to go to another son..........or to a son when its suppose to be send to a grandson.
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Never those types of e-mails...............If It happens its just sending to one son when it suppose to go to another son..........or to a son when its suppose to be send to a grandson. You don't send out angry emails or messages to other people, that you kinda regret? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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For a moment there, I though I was going to have to come to your rescue and smack a beech. How dare someone rip into poor, sweet, funny Paul... Well, glad I won't have to now. I've done that in a chat room, way back in the day. I meant a snarky response to be send in a PM, but ended up sending it to the whole room instead. Whoops! There was a good 30 or so seconds of no online convo, and I can only gather the room was wondering just who that was for and how to respond. Finally, someone chimes in with "Do you need chocolate this evening?" "Yes, please. Sorry. PMSing. *Pay no attention to the (wo)man behind that curtain*." Quote from Wizard of Oz. Laughter ensued. Good save on my part. lol... Chat rooms can be rough... ð I've dttollrf) tripped up in there a few times. Yep... ð ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Honesty is fantastic. Brutal, rude honesty is not requirement. It's a blog what do I care what or how you write that I feel the need to call you a conceited dick, a sociopath, asshole etc. If I felt the need to intercede in your fantasy blog writing I am sure I could come with a more hospitable way to tell you, although I cant think of any reason why I would worry about what you were writing. I agree though... if it was intentional, then it was too harsh. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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ha.. wow, would have loved to have read what the other person wrote to get that response from her. Ever sent an email, that I shouldn't have? No. But the character in your story...he should have just deleted her from his phone and his life, at that moment. She evidently is not stable. Why would he even wonder if he's a narcissist or a sociopath , after reading her note?
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>>âItâs a tough market to crack, unless you have a well thought out nicheâ I very much agree. Mine tends to be mostly diary and I know my life isnât interesting enough on a day to day basis to keep a big readership! And havenât podcasts kind of replaced blogs, anyway?
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Yep... We've both got nerves that are easily pressed. I'm working on it... lol ð I'm working on it! ð I count to ten. Dja think that'll help? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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ha.. wow, would have loved to have read what the other person wrote to get that response from her. Ever sent an email, that I shouldn't have? No. But the character in your story...he should have just deleted her from his phone and his life, at that moment. She evidently is not stable. Why would he even wonder if he's a narcissist or a sociopath , after reading her note? Everything she says in her note to him, may or may not be applicable. He's a blogger, who's full of himself. If not of her advice were applicable, he'd have deleted it and ignored her. Yet... He pauses right at the end... and wonders - is he a narcissist or a sociopath? He'll have to pick ONE in order to get treatment. That email COULD have been for him... ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Well... at least you apologized! Oh my... On to the next one... ð I imagine you're more careful these days? I'm still counting to ten and tripple checking... lol ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Wow... That sounds like a classic. Ya never thought of starting him on a series of lessons? lol ð ðŪ Perhaps he KNEW... how bad he was. I know my strengths and weaknesses. You must as well. Such a fine line between enter and delete. Do you ever try to teach your partner how to do it... or was he just a lost cause? ðĪ Thanks for sharing THAT one. Worthy! ððŪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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>>âItâs a tough market to crack, unless you have a well thought out nicheâ I very much agree. Mine tends to be mostly diary and I know my life isnât interesting enough on a day to day basis to keep a big readership! And havenât podcasts kind of replaced blogs, anyway? Ya still need a captivating story to tell. And tell a new exciting fresh one... over and over again. ð I haven't mastered this blog thingy yet. I don't think erotic anecdotes and quasi fiction have much of a lifespan, outside these walls. I'm stuck... lol ð ðŪ For now! Yep... I'm thinking about 'cozy'. That's... a nice word. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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That happens to me as well... Mixing up daughters. Many times I find friends with the same first name, so I've got to make sure I'm careful. ð You don't send out angry emails or messages to other people, that you kinda regret?
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Wow! What a story! I'm kinda in shock. THAT... is a slice of life, that remain branded in someone's memory. And that last part, about him being my neighbour? Well... What's his address? ðĪ That's... a pretty heavy, misplaced text. I, would have been freaked out Or... were you expecting it? I apologize, if I'm prying. No worries... Beats any wrong note, I've received. ðĪ Oh, we're going to have to have a bottle of wine or two for all the stories I could tell you. Some of them would curl your hair. They'd also explain why I'm gun-shy when it comes to men. He burned the tips of every finger, and I let him, because I trust too easily. Hey. Did you slip a vodka slushie into my tea when I wasn't looking?! I don't usually let all that out without alcohol...lol. You just seem to ask the right questions to get me talking... (Oh, and I knew about the other woman, and I knew her name, but, no, I wasn't expecting that kind of a text. We were celebrating with his family, I was already there, and he was headed over. I confronted him, quietly when he arrived, and he spent the rest of the evening trying to get my forgiveness. I couldn't stand the sight of him, and tried to hide it. Likely, unsuccessfully. I've never discussed it with family.) "Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." â Mark Black
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Well, let's put it this way, if he was your neighbor, you'd know already...asshole American who is insecure and regularly will make himself feel important by putting down others. Oh, we're going to have to have a bottle of wine or two for all the stories I could tell you. Some of them would curl your hair. They'd also explain why I'm gun-shy when it comes to men. He burned the tips of every finger, and I let him, because I trust too easily. Hey. Did you slip a vodka slushie into my tea when I wasn't looking?! I don't usually let all that out without alcohol...lol. You just seem to ask the right questions to get me talking... (Oh, and I knew about the other woman, and I knew her name, but, no, I wasn't expecting that kind of a text. We were celebrating with his family, I was already there, and he was headed over. I confronted him, quietly when he arrived, and he spent the rest of the evening trying to get my forgiveness. I couldn't stand the sight of him, and tried to hide it. Likely, unsuccessfully. I've never discussed it with family.) I imagine we ALL have 'stories' to share. I like to refer them... as 'layers', to a novel that's not yet over. Ya know... I have a Private Mail Box? That chapter you described is something that I can relate to! I love to listen. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Here's the irony about this little story. Everything she says in her note to him, may or may not be applicable. He's a blogger, who's full of himself. If not of her advice were applicable, he'd have deleted it and ignored her. Yet... He pauses right at the end... and wonders - is he a narcissist or a sociopath? He'll have to pick ONE in order to get treatment. That email COULD have been for him... ð In reality, he is likely neither.
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10/11/2019 6:44 pm |
Not any more. I donât multichat or I donât email very many at 1 times. I try to talk to 1 person. Even if someone is nasty to me- be gone before a house falls on you! I donât keep engaging. I donât have time for haters!! Not all women are into the Me Too movement! That crazyford lady who came after Brett K was a nut job!! Any normal person could see she was lying. The vagina hats are stupid. Donât get me started ððð
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Not any more. I donât multichat or I donât email very many at 1 times. I try to talk to 1 person. Even if someone is nasty to me- be gone before a house falls on you! I donât keep engaging. I donât have time for haters!! Not all women are into the Me Too movement! That crazyford lady who came after Brett K was a nut job!! Any normal person could see she was lying. The vagina hats are stupid. Donât get me started ððð Don't get you started...? Go for it! "Vaginal hats"... lol. Good one. So.. whatcha gonna do now? I'm watching a movie... chilling and flipping channels. And of course... perusing this 'Abyss'. ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I know how she feels. I am going to start making a list of all the ass holes stat stand me up and post it on here.
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I know how she feels. I am going to start making a list of all the ass holes stat stand me up and post it on here. I imagine they were never serious, right? Well... I'll be looking for it. Besides that... what's up with you? Any plans today? Drop by any time. ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Holy Shit. That person needs to be ashamed both by sending it and by the weak apology. No manners and certainly no compunction about rupturing at the seams. They would be on my very cooled off list immediately.. Wonder how she discovered she sent it to the wrong person???? No slushies for her (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Holy Shit. That person needs to be ashamed both by sending it and by the weak apology. No manners and certainly no compunction about rupturing at the seams. They would be on my very cooled off list immediately.. Wonder how she discovered she sent it to the wrong person???? No slushies for her He did Google narcissist vs sociopath, so she was partially right? lol ð ðŪ Yep... I've never made THAT big a mistake. ðâðĶð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Then again... She hit some nerves with him. He did Google narcissist vs sociopath, so she was partially right? lol ð ðŪ Yep... I've never made THAT big a mistake. ðâðĶð
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ha... no.. if she told him he had to work on his integument , he would have looked that word up , too. And that's not "Hitting a nerve", that's wanting to know what she means. Well... I learned something new! Thanks for that one! Yep. Worthy... Now how to find a place for it in a conversation? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Sounds like a touch and go situation! lol ð Glad to hear that you survived it. Or did you? ðĪ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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